Relationship issues at 26 weeks pregnant, any advice?

I'm sorry to hear about the situation your in but really guys are jerks like that and once you get pregnant things change. I'm not sure what goes on in there head. If its that they know we are pregnant and theres not much we can do anymore or what. I think they get y about it and think they have us right where they want us well at least for the next 9 months anyway. You just gave me an idea. I'm going to ask the guys out there why they do this as soon as Im done answering your question, so keep an eye out for the question and see what responses we get. I think it is that he resents the fact you kept the babies but DONT let him bring you down because of it. Abortion is a hard decision and I can only imagen how hard it was trying to decide to terminate two babies instead just one that is hard enuff. Guys mature way slower then girls and it is that he's going to be faced with alot of responsibility pretty soon and he probably wasn't ready for it. Before when you talked to him about your feelings on abortion he honestly probably didn't think you'd end up pregnant and kinda told you what you wanted to hear. And now that the situation is real, he's freaking out. I know extactly how you feel too. I'm 16 weeks and 5 days prego and I'm so emotional. My bf gets like that to where he doesn't watch what he says or the tone he uses and I get so emotional. Its cause we feel that they should be there and taking care of us the most right now because we're carrying there children but they dont think like that or feel it the same way we do. Dont let yourself feel like it's your fault cause it's not. He should be taking your feelings more into consideration right now. My bf is just like him too. He wanted me to have an abortion but then he didnt. He'd change his mind every other day and we would fight about it too and we are just like that. We fight (we fought lastnight for that matter) and then the issues never really get resolved and come back out a few weeks later. It's like a broken record. Its not good for the relationship either but I dont know how to fix it or change it either. Be strong Girly and think of your babies. As much as it hurts to fight with him and feel like your not going to have a happy lil family. Just tell him like I told my bf, that you need to start thinking about the people who are more important then him and his bs and that's your babies so dont be stressin out cause it;s not good for them. They deserve better and if they cant get it from him at least you can give them better and be a strong, confident and loving mother. Good luck. Email if you need too. I'll be there for you.